Couples often fight and aggressively defend their own personal point of view as if it were a 'truth' and can become stuck and rigid in their relating patterns.
The reality is that both individuals hold their own unique perspective which is influenced by their family of origin, life story and other factors.
While individual perspectives or world views may differ from one another, both are equally valid.
Counsellors encourage the couple to start listening to one another again and respect their differences which probably brought them together in the first place!
If you are interested in Couple Counselling then please get in touch. Some couples only need a few sessions to get them back on track. Please see my Couples Counselling page for further information. Don't wait until it's too late.